MOM OF THE YEAR – PAST WINNERS I 2016-2008
A domestic violence survivor, Brenda Welch has fought through mental and physical trauma, and has repeatedly put the care of herself and her children first. She has demonstrated perseverance to her community and to her children. Her daughter Saurina says “With such a strong woman as a role model, my sisters and I have been taught resilience, and the power of our voices. We have been taught to talk away from someone who doesn’t treat us with respect, and we have been taught to understand the value of our lives.” Today, Brenda is a continual source of strength to her three daughters. She is a huge supporter of her daughter’s dance classes and is constantly backstage for competitions and conventions. Brenda met every goal set for her at the hospital and can once again drive and is back to work as a childcare provider.
2015’s Mom of the Year Naseem Shah was sent by her family to the U.S. from her war-torn hometown in India when she was only 13 years old. She overcame racism, discrimination, and other hardships to eventually earn a college degree, marry, and raise three daughters.
Today, she works tirelessly to support low income families in her community through a local Head Start program. Her spare time is devoted to actively supporting fair trade in rural Indian communities through the business that she and her husband created. According to her daughter Nasreen, she “captures the spirit of service to others and is a woman of great character and resilience,” and “it is with her love and support that I continue to thrive as a graduate student at WSU.”
In her nomination form, Nicole Cristobal wrote about the struggles her mother Laura had to overcome since she was a child: experiencing abuse at the hands of a family member while growing up, going through a divorce, being homeless and raising two children on her own. Even though Laura experienced these difficult things, she never made her children feel like they were victims of the system, but instead, made them see that there is power in adversity. Nicole stated “I was raised with pride, not embarrassment, because I know that if I did not have those experiences I would not be who or where I am today.” Nicole closed her letter with “People tell me how I am a strong woman, but how can I not be when my mom was my primary role model growing up?”
Maria Blackburn, the 2012 Mom of the Year recipient, sacrificed her free time and energy so her two oldest children could attend WSU. Maria is the mother of WSU students Bryan Blackburn and Krystal Blackburn Funk. Maria works as a full-time social worker and a care nurse for her youngest son, Derryck, who has muscular dystrophy and autism.
“She’s been sacrificing a lot of her free time, a lot of her energy and everything so that me and my sister can continue on our education while she stays at home as a single parent taking care of a son with disabilities,” her son Bryan said.
“I do what a lot of mothers do in the situation,” Maria said. “We just don’t think; we just do it. There are no other options.”
Dorris Brueggeman and her husband adopted their daughter Nikki despite the many difficulties and the discrimination they faced during the process due to Dorris’s blindness.
“Because of her blindness my mother was unable to act like a traditional mother, driving me to school or extracurricular activities, but this did not stop her from making sure I was able to have a normal and happy childhood,” Nikki said. “I owe my mother everything. If not for this woman, I do not know where I would be. She has raised me, nurtured me, [and] punished me when I deserved it, comforted me and saved my life from myself.”
Since moving from Mexico eight years ago, Salas has worked in apple and cherry orchards, prepared food for field workers, and even made and sold Valentine’s Day decorations to help support her family and eventually send her daughter, Ayala, to college. “My mother sacrificed herself every day,” Ayala wrote. “Even though she was tired and all she wanted was to rest, she made sure her children had something to eat and did [their] homework. She cares more about her children than about her own life. Even though my mother has to fight the language barrier every day, that does not stop this wonderful woman from making a difference. For my mother there are no such things as obstacles.”
A resident of Spokane, Knight was described by her daughter Aubrey as a strong, intelligent and loving woman with a “desire to learn and better herself that has never stopped.”
“I hope I can be half the mother she is when my turn to raise children comes along,” Aubrey wrote. “I want her to see herself through the eyes of a stranger for one day and recognize the truly amazing woman she is.”
Aubrey praised her mom because Knight has fought cancer on three occasions with “no sign of fear or tears that could be found on her face in front of her children…she never let the amount of financial insecurity of our household ever show to us kids.”
Le was described by her daughter Ann as “the hardest working person I know.” Originally from Vietnam, Le came to the United States with her children during the Vietnam War.
“For the very reason that she sacrificed [during] her life for our education, I know that my goal in life is to fulfill that dream of hers,” Ann said. “She does not realize that her determination to teach us about our culture is changing my life path and the type of person I want to become. Taking the time to just sit down and talk has allowed me to learn more about my life than any academic education I have ever received.”